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Bushido, Self-Control, summary

Self-Control, of 17 · 6 min to read the chapter

In Self-Control,, the narrator explains how endurance and concern for others make samurai restraint a wider Japanese habit, while stressing that outward calm does not mean weak feeling. Examples of silent farewells, hidden parental care, religious reserve, laughter, and poetry support his argument, but he warns that excessive restraint can damage affection and sincerity.

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  1. The narrator links emotional restraint to endurance and politeness, distinguishing outward calm from an absence of feeling.
  2. A silent military farewell and concealed parental concern show strong emotions beneath controlled behavior.
  3. Religious reserve and guarded speech reflect a belief that public disclosure can cheapen deeply held feelings.
  4. Smiles, laughter, and poetry provide ways to manage or express grief without open complaint.

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